My Dom, he’s been going through a lot mentally. He’s had some news that has triggered him. He’s been absent for over a week and we’ve texted two things here and there every few days. We are long distance so this makes it very challenging. I love him and just want to be there for him, however being in another state and having him shut down on me is just leaving me feeling somewhat abandoned… I feel like me feeling this way is being selfish but I don’t know how to get through this and help him

instructor144:

Tell him you need to schedule a meta talk sooner rather than later, and you need to discuss how you both can help each other during this stressful time.

Good advice. Communication is vital

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