Well, @billfix and I have birthdays coming up. He’ll be 46 and I will be 48.
The sex is outstanding. The romance is top notch. The laughter is wonderful. The love is just flat out amazing.
Age doesn’t matter. Not really. I mean… I have to kneel on a pillow and list toward my good knee, but… it’s still awesome. We get winded and sometimes need to switch it up while fucking because one position can get uncomfortable after a while… But then again, we take our time and it’s anything but boring. Compared to the “2 minute frenzy and then flatline” lovemaking of my youth, I will take our (hot as fuck) actual hours of fooling around.
Also, it’s important to remember that falling in love feels just as amazing no matter how old you get. Also, one benefit of being older is that older folks tend to know themselves better. If we are lucky, life experience has taught us a lot. Bill and I joked the other day about wishing we had met 25 years ago, but at the same time kinda liking that we made a bunch of mistakes with other folks and not each other. It was funny. It was also true serious. We are human and neither one of us is perfect. We are both way more together now than we were when we were in our 20’s figuring ourselves out and fucking up until we got it right. So, there’s that…
Anyway, getting old sucks because your body starts to be like an old car. But, that’s a lot to do with how you take care of it too. Getting old is awesome because you have perspective and a lot life’s drama is out of the way.
I was way too shy and insecure to have a healthy D/s relationship in my youth. Right now is the perfect time for me. I love right now. Right now, on the edge of 48, I am blissfully satisfied with my kinky life.
So don’t sweat age so much. It’s not as big a problem for BDSM as porn would have you believe. Also, older boobies look amazing in rope. Just saying…
Now if that hell bitch gravity would just leave me the fuck alone!
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