It’s funny, I hang out here in the sexy tumblrverse and see a lot of things. There’s a lot of classy sexy shit and people all throughout this place – I’ve made some good kinky friends who definitely enrich my life daily!
There’s a lot of people who indulge in pleasures that I do not personally sanction or indulge (like knifeplay or slave ownership) but I simply move along and leave them be. Because if it’s legal, consensual, and nobody’s boundaries are being disrespected then it’s not my place.
That said, I’ve gotta laugh. Like, how many sex/porn/kink/naughty blogs are SO FUCKING SERIOUS? Nonstop intense! Thou shalt only do as I say! Black and white ONLY! No smile – do not smile bitch cuz smiling is disrespecting my fragile manhood!
For fuck’s sake y’all. Real talk – every D/s relationship has moods and flavors and layers of levity. But if it comes down to killing the fun in your sexual pursuits, or squashing any joy from your sub to ‘serve your desires’ or due to your desired method of ‘dominance’ (*cough cough fragile ego cough*) then newsflash – you’re doing it wrong.
When appropriate, you better fucking believe I am no-nonsense, take charge, unbending will. And my libido is always in overdrive. But how much time do I make comments or give tasks to my sub that will better her, sure, but also I know she’ll laugh at or make her groan smile or illicit that naughty mischievous smirk or lip bite? Spoilers – ALL THE FUCKING TIME! Because fun, laughter, and positive desire are all emotions to be cultivated in your safe space.
Follow your Dom’s rules, yes. Lose yourself in your subspace when the dominance triggers it, of course. But fucking loosen up, ok? Be sexy, be kinky, be naughty, be better than before together, but be a mutual life affirming force, got it?
BDSM Ain’t So Fucking Serious 24/7
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