When a woman submits to a man, it’s the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honor that gift above all else. Even if he respects nothing else in the world, he must respect the woman in his care. It’s his sworn duty to protect, honor and cherish his submissive. To take care of her and provide a safe haven. Someone who would put his own needs above his woman’s is no man.
I get you. Look. I get not just a bit of you. This lady right here… understands you. You are me, and I am you. A bond that not happens with a Dominant is the mutual understanding of our needs. We as women get the empowerment. We also— together understand the will of surrender. We are one sisters. One.
I fully understand those tears as you kneel before him. I embrace the need for aftercare. I know the constant need or reassurance we need. Understanding that in the outside world ; we have much control. And to flip our surrender to a deserving man who we place at our top priority is an unamountable sacrifice and bond as no other. Love. This is why submission is a rarity and a gift.
Does he guide you? Does he understand but more importantly, does he qualify for you to kneel before? Do you honor yourself? Are you placing the desire to please over the desire to work on you?
I get it sisters, I get it. I also believe in the power exchange that takes place in a real D/s relationship. Bdsm is a beautiful sanction between two where so many intricately pieces are placed between a Dominant and his submissive.
Do the work sisters. Work on being the best you. I know I am and will. We all will. Together.
Sharp Dressed Dom 