BDSM Ain’t So Fucking Serious 24/7

thegentlemansdom:

It’s funny, I hang out here in the sexy tumblrverse and see a lot of things. There’s a lot of classy sexy shit and people all throughout this place – I’ve made some good kinky friends who definitely enrich my life daily!

There’s a lot of people who indulge in pleasures that I do not personally sanction or indulge (like knifeplay or slave ownership) but I simply move along and leave them be. Because if it’s legal, consensual, and nobody’s boundaries are being disrespected then it’s not my place. 

That said, I’ve gotta laugh. Like, how many sex/porn/kink/naughty blogs are SO FUCKING SERIOUS? Nonstop intense! Thou shalt only do as I say! Black and white ONLY! No smile – do not smile bitch cuz smiling is disrespecting my fragile manhood! 

For fuck’s sake y’all. Real talk – every D/s relationship has moods and flavors and layers of levity. But if it comes down to killing the fun in your sexual pursuits, or squashing any joy from your sub to ‘serve your desires’ or due to your desired method of ‘dominance’ (*cough cough fragile ego cough*) then newsflash – you’re doing it wrong. 

When appropriate, you better fucking believe I am no-nonsense, take charge, unbending will. And my libido is always in overdrive. But how much time do I make comments or give tasks to my sub that will better her, sure, but also I know she’ll laugh at or make her groan smile or illicit that naughty mischievous smirk or lip bite? Spoilers – ALL THE FUCKING TIME! Because fun, laughter, and positive desire are all emotions to be cultivated in your safe space. 

Follow your Dom’s rules, yes. Lose yourself in your subspace when the dominance triggers it, of course. But fucking loosen up, ok? Be sexy, be kinky, be naughty, be better than before together, but be a mutual life affirming force, got it?

dominantlife:

ppl-will-say-what-they-have-to:

nwhubby:

lilsm1806:

prettylilredhead:

dominantlife:

itsallprimal:

sweet-but-spicy-girly:

chocolateharmonyperson:

belfast62:

crusoesampersand:

thealphawithin:

dangerouswomanxxx:

mymmm:

naughtychef6969:

the-new-sysco:

enscenic:

fae-kisses:

dominantlife:

dominantlife:

If I can get an adult version of something kinda like Tumblr up and running, would you guys be interested?

Mostly same features but with extra features like…

No bullying.

No kids.

No one under 18.

Stronger blocking tools.

All the female associated nipples you can handle.

Please let me know and PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD!!!

All genders and orientations would be welcomed.

More like Tumblr and less like Fet.

Yeeeees!

Go on…

I’m interested

Go on …

Run with it! Sound idea

Yes please!!

Reblog this.

More like Tumblr and less like Fet? Sign me up!

Agreed! @crusoesampersand….. Tried Fet once, scared the beejeesus out of me…..

@crusoesampersand keep me informed! 

i’m in

Let us know how we can help

For now, get the word out!

I have the domain registered and the corporate site.

I will reveal them here once they have propagated and I have something for you guys to see.

Absolutely

@dominantlife has a plan!

Someone is on to something!

Just wondering how you are gonna manage servers and the payment of them? What’s the pricing model like? Could you elaborate..?

Will be using cloud storage for the image content.

I am not sure what the pricing model will look like. I want to have a free model and I am working on a way to achieve that. It will be damn hard to do, not impossible, but hard.

If there are any developers here that want to help test, PLEASE send me a message. I plan to start testing on Wednesday of this week.

HAIR ON FIRE TIME!