wildflowerfirefly7:

Anal Play And Anal Sex Opening My Mind And My Body To New Experiences..

I want to start by saying it’s been awhile since I wrote anything I’ve been quiet lately but with the experiences I have had lately I knew that I wanted to take the opportunity to write something about it.

With my dom I have experienced and done things that I never imagined possible I’ve open myself up to exploring my body and my mind to new possibilities and New Sexual Adventures.

IN MY EYES BEING A GOOD SUBMISSIVE MEANS YOU HAVE TO BE OPEN YOU HAVE TO BE COMPLIANT YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO OBEY AND GIVE YOURSELF TO YOUR DOM.

AS A SUBMISSIVE YOU DESIRE TO WANT TO PLEASE HIM TO MAKE HIM HAPPY YOU NOT ONLY WANT THAT BUT YOU HAVE A NEED TO PUT HIS NEEDS BEFORE YOUR OWN…

YOU HAVE TO BE OPEN & HONEST WITH HIM AND YOURSELF.. BE WILLING TO OPEN YOUR MIND, HEART AND YOUR BODY TO NEW IDEAS AND EXPERIENCES.

Now admittingly I can say I have never been one to think about or try ass play or anal sex because of my past!!

I always associated that particular sexual act with something that was hurtful and harmful from my past. Looking at all the different erotic posts on Tumblr and a lot of them include ass play it got me intrigued with the fascination or the pleasure that people seek in anal play or anal sex.

I talked to my dom about it as I know that being a good submissive means being honest with how you’re feeling emotionally mentally and physically.

I expressed my intrigued with the ass play but also my fear and trepidation about it. He was very supportive and caring and of course patient and gentle he and I started by exploring with finger play and butt plugs i admit i was terrified.

Our bodies and brains are programmed that if we are in pain then it means that something is wrong but that isn’t necessarily the truth especially when you are in a BDSM relationship.

I had the first time typical experience of ummmm… do i have to go to the bathroom it was a unknown experience to me I was not only scared because of my past but more so of the fact of what if i like it?? That terrified me more..

The Most Important Thing I Can Say Is To Anyone Who Hasn’t Tried Anal Play Or Anal Sex Is Use Communication It Is Key And So Is Lube!!

If you don’t think you need lube that’s just stupid!! As a good dom it’s your job to make sure your sub is comfortable and enjoying the experience otherwise she will be reluctant to try new things with you. You want her to be comfortable you want it to be relaxing and enjoyable for both of you.

Anal sex and anal play can be terrifying to any sub for the first time. I know your primary focus is probably on pleasing your master but you have to make sure that you communicate because if you can’t communicate red stop or whatever your word is it will only cause issues SO MAKE SURE YOU ARE OPEN WITH HOW EVERYTHING MAKES YOU FEEL..

I am all about giving my Master what he desires I want him to claim every part of my body including my ass however that also means a HUGE act of faith and trust. I am not afraid to use Red I am not afraid to say stop because let’s face it if you have never had anal before and your a chick let’s be real you panic you think omg what if i shit I feel like I’m gonna shit and In your mind you panic and then tense up completely. The pressure is so intense that if your not relaxed it can feel like your birthing a baby out your ass.

My master distracted my mind of the pressure of his cock entering my ass with the twirl of his magical fingers on my clit. The more turned on I got the more relaxed I became the more I enjoyed it. I’m not gonna lie the pressure is intense I had to stop him a few times…

It’s that feeling of omg do i have to go to the bathroom and wow the pressure is so intense do i call red I don’t want him to stop I like this I’m enjoying it but its just very intense.

Alot of the fear is mental.

As Chicks We Tend To Interpret And Analyze EVERYTHING!! Is He Enjoying Himself? Is He Put Off By This? Is This Even A Turn On For Him?

Chances are if he’s doing it to you he likes it. He wants to push your limits he wants you to have that ultimate sexual release just don’t be afraid to talk about what you like and what you don’t what your limits are.

Now admittingly I like it rough the first time we did anal play I bled I was worried but i wasn’t put off by it I wanted him to take my mind and body to new levels and new heights. After experimenting for what seemed like forever we got rid of the butt plugs and tossed them aside for cock time ( where’s my little cheerleader emoji lol) I was apprehensive but i tried best to relax and trust in him.

He was amazing and gentle he used tons of communication and lube and he made me feel safe.

The climax I had was unlike anything I could explain it was a release for me not just a physical sexual release but an emotional release.

The aftermath of anal left me in a frenzy i felt like a addict.

I wanted more I craved more it was all I could think of. I even spoke the words that I’d give up vag sex and just have only anal because it felt that amazing to me.. I wanted it like a kid wanting candy in a candy store. Never having willingly given myself to the idea that I’d like it to now being consumed with carnal desires of omg it’s all I want.

The next day I was sore but it was a great soreness it was a reminder to me a badge of honor so to speak that my Master now owned a new part of my body he owned my ass it was all his..

You can’t go into anal thinking that since you have had it once it’s going to be easy as pie the next time that ain’t the truth!! The same rules still apply listening communicating LUBE all key factors everytime you do any kind of play.

I just wanted to share my experience and my thoughts on anal play / anal sex for anyone out there who’s never tried it before and wondering if it’s something that they’ll actually enjoy doing..

Trust me when I say you probably will love it I did and I still do even me writing this me thinking about it makes me want to beg my master and come and grab me and pleasure me with his cock in my ass.

Something you are unsure of or scared of trying can land up being one of the most pleasurable experience you will have.

Give Yourself To Your Master

Give Yourself To Trying And Exploring New Things You’ll Be Glad You Did.😉

🌹Wildflower🌹

I am proud of you for pushing past your fears, and bad experience from the past. This took so much courage and trust. You should be proud.