I have a master, and I love our relationship. At the beginning I told him I have a part of me that is little and that I sometimes regress. He essentially dismissed it and said he doesn’t do a daddy or caregiver role. I’m afraid you go into little space with him, but now its causing me stress, my little space is my space to de-stress and reset my mind and I can’t do that. How should I approach this if he has already dismissed the idea. I don’t want to end our relationship, I just need more…

instructor144:

Well, he made it clear up front that he doesn’t do the Daddy thing, so he was honest and didn’t misrepresent himself. You opted to go into the relationship knowing that you had a Little side that would not be tended to by this man. In short, you went into the relationship knowing what the two of you had a foundational incompatibility. Now it’s down to you to decide what to do with that.

Leave a comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.